The Importance of Visitation

I want to follow up on that letter Tom Ditto wrote.  He was pastor in the church I serve 50 years ago.  Perhaps you remember that I could point to two couples that I know, and their kids and grandkids, who came to this church because of the visitation Rev. Ditto and members of the congregation did.  I asked Sue Wells, a member who knows a lot about this town and this church.  She took the names and addresses and made a report for me.

From that report, in addition to the two couples I know, Sue noted that at least 8 people became active members.  She had additional information about a number of people who became active to some degree and then others who while they never joined were a strong part of the ministry.  And how about this… there are a number of families who the parents did not come, but the kids did.  And one of those “kids” now has two kids in our youth ministry.

What a great legacy—new members, people exploring the faith, maybe the parents did not come, but some grandkids are here.  Think long-term.  Yes, it is awesome when someone comes to Christ.  But for that to happen on your watch, many others went before you, preparing the ground.  I look at the two grandkids (not using their names because I have not asked permission yet) and I think how important they are in my kids’ lives… to think that an important piece in their accepting Christ last year was something they probably have no clue about: some people from the church visited their grandparents.

I am also humbled by my spiritual fathers.  I have Howard Willen’s robe, Harold Hunter’s stole, and Harold Dorsey’s service book.  And now Tom Ditto’s letter.

I really hope that we are encouraged to reach out to our neighbors. To be serious about visitation! Over and over you hear that it doesn’t work.  Even now, someone is saying, “well, it worked then, but that was the 60s. Times are different. It doesn’t work now.”  Have you tried it?  Consistently? Not one-and-done, but regularly going out with some people, inviting new folks to the church? Inviting people who have been here forever… to come to church?

I have a favor to ask.  A friend of mine, John Wesley Leek, will be leading some visitation work with his church in rural Mississippi.  He has been serious about going out and getting to know the neighbors, helping them to get to know the church.  Will you pray for him and his church?  I bet if we get some prayer power on it, his little church will see great results!

Bishop Asbury Speaks

Those of you who know me and those who have read this blog know that often enough I bring up the practice of visiting house to house.  This kind of evangelism freaks people out for a whole variety of reasons we can talk about later.

What I want to bring up here is the vow we take as Methodist pastors.  “Will you visit from house to house?”  All those who are ordained as Methodist pastors get asked this at their ordination service.  We are all supposed to answer “yes.”  And we do.  I visit house to house first of all, because I took a vow to. (The other vows are worth looking at, too.  Again, later.)  I visit house to house because IT WORKS, on a bunch of levels.  Sometimes it brings people to church and then to salvation.  Sometimes I get to pray with people! People I would otherwise never meet, or know the burdens on their heart.

I have noticed from the beginning of my ministry that almost no pastor who vowed to visit house to house does so.  I have asked all kinds of people—other pastors, District Superintendents from various conferences, bishops—and I get a basic response.  The questions are “heritage” questions.  We are acting out an old ordination service, but we don’t need to live into the vows.  Or, for the specific question, “Will you visit from house to house,” I have been told most often that it means the people in your church.

Francis Asbury, one of the two original Bishops of the Methodist Church, died in 1816, 200 years ago.  I have been thinking that this would be a great year to read his journals.  I have read Wesley’s Journal, and it was probably the best thing I ever read about what it takes to be a pastor.  Asbury was the bishop who laid out a vision for the Methodists in the new nation.  Well, finding Asbury’s journal has been a little harder.  I found one on Amazon, but it is only volume 2 of a three volume set.  No biggie, I figured I would start there.

As I was packing to head to Illinois, I picked it up to put in my bag and it opened.  I glanced at random and came across this gem from May 24, 1795: “I spent part of the week in visiting from house to house. I feel happy in speaking to all I find, whether parents, children, or servants; I see no other way; the common means will not do; Baxter, Wesley, and our Form of Discipline say, ‘Go into every house;’ I would go farther and say, go into every kitchen and shop—address all, aged and young, on the salvation of their souls.”

So, there you have it.  Asbury, who knew Wesley well, gathered that visiting from house to house really  means going from house to house!  And not just the homes of your own people.  He cites Richard Baxter, probably thinking of his great book on pastoral care “The Reformed Pastor,” and John Wesley and the Methodist book of Discipline.

All that remains for us to decide is if this practice makes any sense today.  What has changed since 1816, and when did it change, so that visiting from house to house should be neglected?  And if it should be neglected, can we drop it from ordination, because it seems in poor taste to start ministry with dishonest answers to questions that don’t matter.

Or… could it be that in a day when fewer and fewer people come to church, and very few know much about what it means to be a Christian, that pastors should rediscover this to get to know the people who aren’t coming to church, and for whom the “common means” (going to church, growing up in a Christian culture, etc) are not working?

A Letter to My Church

I have now, in my formerly gunpowder-stained hands, a letter, written in 1961,  to my church from its then-pastor, Tom Ditto.  In just a few days, it has become a very important and inspiring thing to me.

But before we go back to 1961, I have to say a few words about Tom Ditto.  When I was going through ordination, I was placed in a sort of small study group of other ordinands.  I was in there with some of my closest friends in ministry.  Martina Ockerman, one of my oldest friends in Kentucky; my best friend from seminary, Lyle Morton; and Scott Wilson—you know that story… we went to middle school together in Germany, and how cool is it to be in ministry with him AND his son, Jacob.  Well, Tom Ditto was assigned to us as a clergy mentor.  Man, did he walk me through some thorny stuff.  My first church had the meanest white woman in America in it.  I bet I cried to Tom once a month.

I would see Tom about once a year at Evangelism Resources’ banquet.  He went home to glory a little over a year ago.

Last week, Janis and Jack Ellis invited me over to give me some of Jack’s old books.  Look through a preacher’s, a writer’s, a scholar’s books?  Yes, please!

I was not prepared that the best part of what was in one of the boxes he gave me was the aforementioned letter.

The letter was written to a number of people who had gathered together to go over names of new people in Morehead, and then went out to visit them (!!!) and invite them to church.

The most important paragraph of the letter, and the only part I will quote, reads: “’Jesus Christ is Lord’ is the emphasis of the Methodist Church for the next four years.  Immediately the special area of this emphasis is centered in evangelism.  The goal is that every member of the Church will begin to witness about Christ to friends, neighbors and associates.  Let us each prepare ourselves daily with spiritual disciplines that will enable us to do this.”

Whoa. Friends, this is great stuff!  One time, not too long ago, the national church called its members to evangelism? To the Lordship of Jesus Christ? Evangelism has fallen on hard times in the United Methodist Church.  Since Rev. Ditto wrote that letter, the UMC has lost more than 60% of its members.  In 1957, we were the largest Protestant denomination.  Since then, a continuous slide.  But we’re paid well, have nice pensions, and a lot of property value.  You know, the stuff the Great Commission is all about.

But there is more to the letter.  In fact, it’s not so much what Rev. Ditto wrote as it is what else was in the letter: the names and addresses of many new people in the community.  I want to sit down with some of the older members and see how many of the folks on this list became a part of the church.  But I can tell you that two of the families on that list did and are still here. I know their kids, grandkids, and soon great-grandkids.  Paul Ousley is on the list. He has gone home to glory.  But his dear wife Gail is still here, one of our treasurers.  And so are Howard and JoAnne Setser.  Howard and JoAnne’s daughter Elizabeth married a friend of mine from Sunday School in Lexington, Mike Berry.  Mike and Elizabeth are both prominent leaders in a great church where Jerry Beck-- a pastor I love-- serves!

I have no way of calculating the impact of these families on the Kingdom.  Their years of worship.  Of service. Of tithing. Their witness to their friends and family. The work that goes on through their kids and grandkids.  Now what would happen, if were to learn about how so many others of our members came to know Christ?  Wouldn’t we have a totally different view of how to do evangelism, WHY to do it?  How to stay encouraged about it?  Joyce Saxon’s father told God is she got saved he would become a preacher.  What about countless fathers and mothers and grandfathers and grandmothers praying by children’s bedsides, doing devotionals together, exalting Christ in the day-to-day? If I think about it, I am overwhelmed. I see each person in my mind and cannot fathom how many people, stretching back to the Apostles, were faithful in living and proclaiming so that each person in my church came to know Christ! To think that today, I may be someone who can witness to another.  Any person living their life in the light of Christ—we can never understand what influence they will have. Each one of us who is saved is a miracle!

Someone went to visit the people on this list.  I know of at least two other prominent members of my church that came because Rev. Ditto visited them when they came to town.

I think this letter is one of the most encouraging and challenging things I have come across.  A simple letter, nothing of earth-shaking historical value.  But what it shows us is a pastor and church who wanted to reach their town for Christ.  A small town, but that does not matter.  Everywhere, people need to know Jesus, and we should be pleased to introduce Him anywhere to anyone!

And then there’s this.  We may think, “I went out and visited people, and invited people, and no one came.”  Don’t I know it! If I counted the fruit of my evangelism based on the percentage of people who became followers of Christ, I’d be so depressed.  My own self-assessment is that I am a less-than-average evangelist.  But I don’t worry about numbers or rejection. What I do focus on is that when one person accepts Christ, angels rejoice.  And this letter from Rev. Ditto reminds me that each person who comes to Christ can have an amazing impact over the long haul of the Kingdom. Don’t obsess about all the people who don’t respond to your invitation.  Or who reject your precious Savior, who is so dear to you that it hurts if they take Him lightly.  Think that those who do come to know Him through your witness will also bear fruit for the Gospel.  You may never get to see that fruit.  But it is there.